kindness or delegation?
ever noticed how some people act helpful but actually get others to do the work for them? they size up who's around, what sources others provide and hand out tasks like a boss, and make things happen without doing the work themselves. it seems kind, but it's really just delegation.
this kind of behavior might be useful in a professional setting, like managing a team, but it doesn’t belong in a friendship. and in friendships, it’s understandable if it happens once or twice unintentionally but when it becomes a strategy, that’s a whole different story.